I Know What I Am

He wanted to do a straightforward interview. Didn’t want any comments or

judgmental statements. “Lets do a Q and A session,” he laughed. Hard hitting? “No

Problem!” So this is how it went

Were you happy to be rated a sex symbol?

“I really don’t have a problem about being rated as anything. I know what I am and

the people close to me understand me. That’s all that counts.” “What is a sex

symbol? It is how a certain section of society sees you, right? So they view me as

sexy, huh? That is of no consequence. What is important here is being a symbol,

someone who’s reached a level that has people emulating him or her. That is a

responsibility and I am happy that I’ve made that much of a contribution that people

would like to copy me.”

Your life with this country’s most beautiful woman?

“I’m proud of her. I’m proud to be associated with her. My name linked with hers?

It’s a privilege. What more can anyone ask for a man?”

Why do you strip in every film?

(laughs…) “Because my producer, director, distributor and audience, all want to

have a good look at what they’re banking on. And I’ve worked very hard to get into

the shape you’re seeing. I don’t have a problem to show an arm, a leg and chest.

It’s fine by me. So why should it be a point of debate? I also act when my shirt is

off, you
know. Why not try and notice that as well!”.

You really did try and woo David Dhawan to take you in a number of his projects,

didn’t you?

“Look, I loved the kind of films that David makes. They’re out and out hysterical

fantasies that have no pretensions or psuedo fundas in them. They are excellent

and complete entertainers. I was dying to work with him and I made sure he got to

know it. But now I want to make things clear. No amount of wining or dining, as you

put it, would’ve convinced David to take me if he didn’t feel I suited the role! He

was sure I could deliver if he gave me the opportunity to… and that’s how it

began…”

People are forever talking about the charitable work you keep doing

“That’s an area I don’t really want to talk about, suffice to say that I enjoy doing

what I do and the quieter it is the better. Hey (he laughs), let at least one aspect

of my life be underplayed and private. Since the rest of my private life is so public,

at least there is something that keeps me feeling sane…”

What’s the film you really enjoyed doing?

“At the risk of sounding clichéd, I’ve enjoyed working in all my films, but truthfully

speaking, there is nothing to equal that feeling of watching yourself, with an

audience, in your first film! It’s magical. ‘Maine Pyar Kiya’ was magical. Not knowing

whether the public was going to accept or reject you. Shaky… Shaky… Shaky…till

people burst out of the cinema hall applauding. My God, that was fabulous!”

Any other films?

“Then doing scenes in ‘Khamoshi’, doing a film like ‘Andaz Apna Apna’ and realizing

you can be quite comic. Later on, working in ‘Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam’. They have

all been wonderful experiences.”

What about your ‘Kahin Pyar Na Ho Jaye’ and ‘Chori Chori Chupke Chupke’?

“I was convinced that ‘Kahin Pyar Na Ho Jaye’ would be a well-accepted film.

Obviously, I was wrong. So in the case of ‘Chori Chori…’ I did not harboured any

expectations. That is one thing I’ve come to learn in this line. You cannot pre-empt

your movie being a hit. You can only hope it will do well. You cannot dictate your

audience reaction.

Do you lead your life in the same manner? No expectations…

“I’d love to, but the expectations just creep in unconsciously. Automatically when

people have expectations of you, you have the same for them.”

Don’t you want to marry and have a family?

“Sure, but don’t you think there’s a lot of time left for that stuff?”

Do you think so?

“Sure. I’m still a teenager man (laughs)!”

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